INTRODUCTION
Relationships are hard work. You get mixed signals. You’re unsure when to talk, what to say, or how to handle the awkward stuff. And when it all goes wrong, it feels like a waste of time and energy. That’s where tech can help you become a better partner and communicator. These are the 7 best apps MenTools recommends to leverage your time.
1. DESTAN – RELATIONSHIP FIXER
Destan is a journaling and relationship tracking app built to help couples communicate better and fix recurring issues. It lets you log emotions, events, and conversations. You can tag problems, write down arguments, and set goals together. The calendar and reminder features help you stay on top of things that matter like check-ins, quality time, or dates.
It’s especially helpful if you keep having the same arguments or feel like your relationship’s going in circles. You can track patterns and understand what sets things off.
Use it to stay ahead of small issues before they become big ones. Destan makes you more emotionally aware without turning you into a therapist. Just log your side, look at the trend, and make better choices.
2. MOJO – MENS PERSONALISED DATING COACH
Mojo is an app that builds your sexual confidence and dating skills through daily training. It’s designed by sex therapists and coaches, and it includes short video lessons, exercises, and practical challenges. You can choose areas to improve like erection control, premature ejaculation, porn recovery, or general confidence with women.
The app creates a tailored plan based on your answers. You get actionable tasks each day, like mental reframes, breathing drills, or communication skills. Everything’s based on real therapy models—nothing cheesy or cringe.
You don’t have to guess what to work on. Mojo gives you structure, explains why things happen, and teaches you how to fix them. You’ll stop overthinking and start performing better, both in and out of the bedroom.
3. THE COACH – MENS HEALTH AND KEGAL
The Coach is a kegel training app built for men who want to improve pelvic floor strength. It includes guided daily routines with timers, rest intervals, and progression plans. Best part is there’s no weird language or animations.
Kegels aren’t just for women. Doing them properly improves erection strength, bladder control, and sexual stamina. The Coach breaks it down into beginner, intermediate, and advanced levels so you build up gradually.
You can do the workouts anywhere with no equipment, no embarrassment. It’s just you, your phone, and a plan that takes 5 minutes a day. Stick to it and you’ll see legit performance benefits in a few weeks.
4. DR. KEGAL – FOR MENS HEALTH
Dr. Kegal is a pelvic health app focused on long-term improvement. Compared to The Coach, this one includes a lot more tracking, health education, and prevention tools. It’s ideal for guys who want to avoid future issues like ED, premature ejaculation, or urinary problems.
The app uses a 30-day plan that gradually increases intensity and focus. It has clear instructions for correct technique and posture. You also get daily reminders and progress stats.
What makes Dr. Kegal stand out is its clinical feel. It’s not trying to be trendy or flashy. It just does the job of protecting your health and improving sexual function. Think of it as your daily physio for below the belt.
5. MANSWERS – AI RELATIONSHIP COACH
Manswers is a chat-based app where you ask a relationship question and get instant advice. It’s not therapy, but it gives calm, useful answers fast based on real relationship psychology, not just surface-level tips.
You can type in stuff like “What should I text her after a fight?” or “Why is she being distant?” and get clear, no-nonsense feedback. It’s built for men who want direction but don’t want to scroll Reddit for hours or talk to mates who give bad advice.
It doesn’t sugarcoat things, and it’s private. You don’t need to explain your whole life. Just ask what’s bugging you and get an answer you can act on. Simple as that.
6. HOW TO MAN – MASCULINITY AND RELATIONSHIPS
How to Man is a self-development app for men that focuses on masculinity, polarity, and leading relationships well. It’s not about being alpha or aggressive, it’s about becoming strong, grounded, and present.
The app has bite-sized lessons on purpose, attraction, relationship roles, emotional control, and dealing with rejection. It draws from modern male psychology, not outdated macho stuff.
This is for guys who feel like they’ve lost their edge or are confused about how to act in today’s world. You’ll learn how to lead with confidence, stay emotionally centred, and build deeper attraction without manipulation.
CONCLUSION
These apps are powerful tools to take back control of your focus. Each one tackles a different part of the distraction problem. The key is to start with one app that matches your biggest focus challenge. Test it for a week and see how it impacts your productivity. Once you’ve mastered that tool, you can add another to your arsenal.
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