Ross Szabo is one of the leading voices in youth mental health education: founding Wellness Director at Geffen Academy at UCLA, founder of the Human Power Project, co-author of Behind Happy Faces, and author of A Kids Book About Anxiety. His story starts long before the titles. Born into a family with severe mental health disorders and addiction, Ross was 11 when he visited his older brother in a psychiatric ward, was diagnosed with bipolar disorder himself at 16, and coped with drinking that began at age 12. In his senior year of high school, after months of crippling depression, he attempted to take his own life… and this occurred while serving as class president, playing varsity basketball, and carrying a high GPA. On the outside, everything looked fine. The inside was a different story. That distance between the outside and the inside became the through line of his life’s work.

The idea Ross has organized his career around sounds simple: treat mental health the same way we treat physical health. That means a clear definition, a shared language, and trainable skills. His definition is a helpful place to start… mental health is not about having a problem, it’s how you address the different challenges in your life. At Geffen Academy, he built what he describes as the only program in the country where students learn about mental health and healthy relationships once a week, every week, from grade six through grade 12, timed to the second largest period of brain growth, which happens between the ages of 12 to 25. His graduates report feeling far more prepared for college than their peers, especially in the interpersonal sense: living with new roommates, managing relationships, and knowing how to ask for support.

Ross and Mike walk through how mapping the self-defining memories that shaped you helps build coping mechanisms the way athletes build skills (the more consistently you do something, the better you get at it). And they discuss how expanding your emotional vocabulary improves your mental health. Ross and Mike dive into the difference between vulnerability and trauma dumping, how the crisis shows up differently in young men and young women, why modeling beats lecturing at home, and what a shared language for mental health could unlock in families, schools, and businesses.

In this conversation, we explore:

• Why so many young people look fine on the outside while struggling on the inside
• A clear, working definition of mental health, and why most of us don’t have one
• The difference between feeling nervous and having anxiety
• Why the more words you have for your feelings, the better your mental health
• The neuroscience of coping, and how to actually rewire a habit
• How the youth mental health crisis shows up differently in young men and young women
• What parents overlook when preparing kids for college
• Why every family, team, and business needs a shared language for mental health

Ross’s work is an invitation to care for the mind with the same clarity we bring to the body. And if you’re raising, teaching, or leading young people, this conversation offers the language and the skills to close the gap between the outside and the inside.

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Ross Szabo’s Books: Behind Happy Faces (co-authored) and A Kids Book About Anxiety

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